THE SIGNS OF A CHEATING SPOUSE - INFIDELITY IN MARRIAGE

Infidelity In Marriage - Cheating Spouses - Communication Breakdown

It happens to the best of us. Communication is such a fickle thing, and the lines of communication can become blurred every so often, especially when feelings are involved. Even those who think that they are immune to the confusion of conflict can find themselves drawn into a communication breakdown when they least expect it, and chaos ensues.
This happened to me on the weekend, and until to be quite honest, it took me by surprise. Even those of us who are better equipped than many others are not immune. My spouse told me something that really hurt my feelings, and I lashed back in defense. It was a silly argument, over something as simple as a misplaced bottle of aftershave. But to me, it represented something much deeper, that had been simmering away for a couple of weeks. I get frustrated at having to search for something when it is not where I expect it to be. Worse still when my partner has shifted it and I don’t know the first place to begin searching.

“Marriage And Infidelity – The Signs The Marriage Is Over”

What would you do if you came home from work one day and your spouse, the love of your life, your significant other, tells you “ I’m no longer in love with you anymore and I want a divorce. WOW…. you didn’t see that one coming, did you? Well this scenario happens more often than you may think. I mean, considering that the divorce rate in this country is at a whopping 50% and to hear some people talk, marriage is a dying institution. Do not believe that because it is not.

"Tips To Add Spice And Keep The Love In Your Marriage!"

We’ve heard the term “two old marrieds” before. Most of us “younger marrieds” harbor dreams of getting to that point. Some of us find it unappealing and unexciting. After all, what would you always prefer? A marriage as comfy as an old sock or the one hyped up in romantic novels and comedies?
Interestingly, it does take years of passion, love and intimacy to get to the point where a couple is so comfortable with each other that they finish each other’s sentences and depend on each other. Want to know a secret? Studies say that couples like these have an even better sex life in their marital futures than the ones with all the passion at the start then burn out later on. 
Why? Because these savvy couples don’t let up on keeping the intimacy, passion and spice in their marriages. They’ve built it up through the years to what we can call as a marriage “art form”.
How can you learn these spicy tips to keep the love in your marriage? Here’s some of them!
1. Prioritize each other.

"Will You Handle Infidelity When It Is You Who Cheated"

The day you started to move away from your marriage. Start cheating on your spouse and had that extra marital affair.Cleaning up the aftermath is never simple.  Just think for a moment.....You will need to face the possible explosive reaction of your spouse, also you will need to handle your own fragile feelings.  Nothing is going to be easy in how you handle your spouse's feelings (and rightfully so), and in order for you to handle the situation better, you should think about how YOU feel about your marriage also. You will need to own up to your behavior, be remorseful that you indulged in the behavior of infidelity. But also keep in mind, if your feelings have changed and you find yourself in love with someone else, NOW may be the time to consider ending the marriage as graceful and compassionate as possible.
OK are you able to admit your infidelity and try to work on your marriage?  If you are not sincerely in love with your husband or wife maybe a greater change awaits you.  But going outside the marriage doesn't mean that you really want to put an end to the relationship.  The one thing to ask yourself is; if you had a crystal ball and you could see into the future and see all the hurt and pain caused, would you really want to do it again?  Don't worry about the reasons why you had the affair.  That is done and is in the past, you cannot go back and change what has already been done.

"Cheating Spouses – Surviving Infidelity - Marriage and Infidelity"



The hurt, the pain the lies, the betrayal, the secrecy and the infidelity. There is nothing in the world that will hurt more than to find out that your spouse has been cheating on you. If your relationship has a foundation built on deception it cannot and will not survive. When you find out infidelity, lies and betrayal threaten the marriage you thought was on solid ground, what do you do? Who do you turn to for advice?

At the moment a cheating spouse fulfills his or her needs by looking  away from their spouse instead of looking too them, this is where betrayal begins! To a great extent it is not what they do, many times betrayal is how they act and the things they do not do.  Without thinking you can violate your spouses trust by withholding affection, love and sex, not communicating your true feelings or by pushing back and not allowing your spouse to get close to you, the way a spouse should.  Always remember you will need to focus on the problems in your marriage.  You will never fix the  problems inside your marriage by turning to a third party outside of your marriage.  Before you realize that a disaster is about to happen, you will need to acknowledge and accept that there is a serious problem within your marriage.  You cannot fix what you deny to acknowledge and come to grips with the situation in front of you.  If you see something happening within your marriage that is not right,you will have to admit it in order to fix it.