"Cheating Spouses – Surviving Infidelity - Marriage and Infidelity"



The hurt, the pain the lies, the betrayal, the secrecy and the infidelity. There is nothing in the world that will hurt more than to find out that your spouse has been cheating on you. If your relationship has a foundation built on deception it cannot and will not survive. When you find out infidelity, lies and betrayal threaten the marriage you thought was on solid ground, what do you do? Who do you turn to for advice?

At the moment a cheating spouse fulfills his or her needs by looking  away from their spouse instead of looking too them, this is where betrayal begins! To a great extent it is not what they do, many times betrayal is how they act and the things they do not do.  Without thinking you can violate your spouses trust by withholding affection, love and sex, not communicating your true feelings or by pushing back and not allowing your spouse to get close to you, the way a spouse should.  Always remember you will need to focus on the problems in your marriage.  You will never fix the  problems inside your marriage by turning to a third party outside of your marriage.  Before you realize that a disaster is about to happen, you will need to acknowledge and accept that there is a serious problem within your marriage.  You cannot fix what you deny to acknowledge and come to grips with the situation in front of you.  If you see something happening within your marriage that is not right,you will have to admit it in order to fix it.